Hello, my name is Rose Weisfuss, and today I celebrate the vibrant spirit of my dear friend Cheryl McGhan, who brought joy and light to everyone she touched. Cheryl entered my life 16 years ago when I admired her sleek hard-top convertible Lexus outside a FedEx store. She smiled warmly, introduced herself, and offered me a ride after I confessed my dream of owning one like hers. That moment sparked our deep friendship. We shared countless 
adventures: cozy coffees, lunches and dinners, dancing, concerts, beach lounging, and heartfelt chats in her car. I could always call her for support. 
We once vacationed in Cabo for eight days, laughing over margaritas, exploring markets, and dancing under the stars. Cheryl 
visited Mexico yearly, sharing lively updates that made me feel included. I loved her book club and meeting her teacher friends.
Cheryl adored her family: her brother, with whom she 
planned getaways and enjoyed Christmas traditions; her parents' love of horses and warm home; and her dog Yoshi, her constant companion. 
Cheryl was a beautiful soul—smart, loving, caring, understanding, and compassionate. A loyal friend with a positive outlook, she 
profoundly impacted many. As a dedicated teacher, she nurtured students with creativity and patience, sharing joyful classroom stories. She hosted Japanese students in summer, caring 
for them, shopping, and sharing Monterey knowledge; many stayed lifelong friends.
Cheryl embraced life: dancing to live bands, savoring foods and wines, and enjoying book club stories. She treasured everyone in her life, and we feel fortunate to have known her. I'll forever miss her infectious laugh, warm voice, and radiant smile. She leaves surrounded by love and happy memories, her legacy of kindness and zest enduring. 
Cheryl, thank you for being in my life. Rest in peace. Your friend forever, Rosie

It was Cheryl Louise who gave me a lot of information when I had arrived as a immigrant. She spent a lot of time to make me familiar with a totally new world for me and she introduced  me personal to   stores. 
During this time my son had to start elementary school. She helped him to understand how schools work and what he had to do. 
Cheryl became my son's godmother.  She took him on a trip to Mexico and southern California where he visited Walt Disney and enjoyed staying in luxury hotels with her.
Her most important gift she gave to my son is his speedy advancement in English.  His English became perfect and  he speaks it as a native without any foreign accent.  All that had paved  his way for highly academic achievements and success as a professional.
I am missing Cheryl and I would have wished for her a much longer life. But now she can be with her Mom, Dad, and her sister Betty.

Dan I was saddened with the news of her passing I had just had the most wonderful conversation with her a few weeks before sharing memories of our over 50 year friendship, Darrin also has wonderful memories. She was one of a kind , she will be missed , however she will always be remembered for her kindness, love and smiles, she was fun and made happiness where ever she went.  She was a treasure

Those who died continue to live in our memory when we decide to allow that. Nobody can forget Cheryl L McGhan, M.A., a dedicated elementary school teacher, working for decades for the benefits of her students. After tolerating all the stress on her job she realized  that travelling only would build up again her energy. 
Her most desired travel dream was fulfilled when she went to Australia and New Zealand.  She climbed up Uluru Rock to its summit and danced in a narrow gorge of Kata Tjuta to the sounds of a didgeridoo.  She drove all the way from Seaside on the southern route to the  Key West  and went back to Ireland, the Netherlands and Germany. In the later years she spend long vacation months at Mexican resort towns enjoying nature and culture. 
Cheryl did know that life can be fun and she refused any limits that could have prevented her from having an exciting, joyful life.  She set willingly an example for herself but also for those who are not aware that life should be always enjoyed. 
Let us keep Cheryl in our memories by following her ways of life!

My wife, Mae, first met Cheryl in 2010 when she needed a place to stay. With Mae’s mother still out of the country and because of their age gap, Mae asked if she could call Cheryl “Mommy,” and Cheryl lovingly became a mother figure to her in the States. They quickly grew inseparable, taking spontaneous road trips throughout California and sharing countless experiences together. Cheryl treated Mae like her own daughter...protective, caring, and always offering guidance. Cheryl and her family embraced Mae as one of their own, often spending holidays together.

I first met Cheryl, Dan, and Eddie in 2014 at a Thanksgiving gathering when I began dating Mae. They were immediately warm and welcoming. Cheryl was always curious and supportive, especially of my interests in languages and education. During that time, Cheryl even opened her home to us when we needed a place to stay. After Mae and I married and moved to Kansas, Cheryl continued to support us. When I was deployed to Kuwait, she flew out and brought Mae back to Monterey, watching over her while I was halfway across the world(a kindness I will forever be grateful for).

Over the years, Cheryl remained a loving presence in our lives, always reaching out, celebrating our milestones, and offering advice and encouragement. Mae loved Cheryl deeply, and her passing shortly before Mae’s birthday was devastating. Cheryl will be greatly missed by the Erekson family. A free spirit who lived fully, she taught for over 40 years and continued serving children even in retirement. She touched countless lives. God bless you, Cheryl. Rest in Christ’s loving embrace. We love you and will never forget you!

I am saddened to hear about Cheryl; she will definitely be missed; enjoyed her company when we met up with her;  I am so glad to have met her siblings and friends through the years. I  will miss all the nice restaurants that we've eaten through the years; I am glad she had some nice happy times in Mexico on her vacations and some good camping trips with us. Cheryl you'll always be in my thoughts

Cheryl was our "California cousin" whom we loved to go visit.  She was always so upbeat and ready to go and do something fun.   She enjoyed life more than anyone I know and will truly miss her.

I met Cheryl briefly but knew she was a good person and a loving brother to my friend Dan. May her memory be a blessing and may she rest in peace.

Cheryl, 
I wish I had spent more time with you. Your trips to Mexico and the stories that followed. When I first met you it was like I’ve known you for years.
Love,
Rafael

Cheryl,  still can't believe you are not with us in the physical but knowing you are with us in spirit makes me smile.  Missing you and wishing you were still here.  We had many laughs and fun times with the family.  We enjoyed camping and family dinners.  Our family really enjoyed the out doors and discovering new places in California to visit.  The yearly trips to see family in Los Angeles , Kansas, and Iowa.  You enjoyed reuniting with them and friends in Alaska.  Miss you Sis and as we spoke, You said you lived a good life and you sure have.  You have lived multitudes of lives more than most people could have experienced.  Love you Sis,  brother Danny

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Cheryl McGhan

January 5, 1947 – December 12, 2025

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